Your Sweet Heart Ended It, That Heartless Evil Lass...
Now Your Future Is In Shambles, How Do
I Get Over My Ex Girlfriend Without Feeling The Need To Panic And Beg For Her To Come Back.
I know it's not as easy as it
sounds, but with this blueprint, you'll get over your ex
girlfriend and pick up the pieces of your shattered heart and manhood... in no time.
Don't IDOLIZE her and build her up into something great. She is nothing
of
the sort. So don't gaze lovingly at pictures of her. Don't jump to answer her
e-mail or phone calls. And, Definitely Don't Go Out Of Your Way
For Her... She No Longer Deserves Preferential
Treatment.
It's essential to definitively end any
hopes of reconciliation between the two of you, And if you can't get
that into your head, she owes you the courtesy of it crystal
clear!
She needs to
tell you... "I never loved you. I don't love you now. We'll never get back
together." After some prodding, she'll probably do it, just to get rid of
you.
It provides what therapists call "closure." And you can begin to heal.
There's only one thing left for you to do... Forget
her. But no matter how you try, you can't get back to that little spot of
sunlight where you were so comfortable and safe.
Don't venture into her territory. You won't be
welcome.
Find new places to hang
out for the first few months... And make new friends, if necessary!
If any of your friends insist on
maintaining contact with her, you may have to shut them out, too... at least temporarily.
After some time has passed, you should go back to living normally,
and that means hanging out at these places and reconnecting with
mutual friends.
After the relationship reaches
finality, you have to break off contact or you will go mad. Don't
beg or cry... Don't drunk-dial...
Don't write her e-mail...
Don't send packages or CDs... Don't dedicate a song to her
on the radio.
Get the picture?
She will find
you if she wants to. And even if you can talk you
way back into her arms, it's only a temporary
reprieve.
She already knows you want
her back, and she doesn't care, Take that as a sign
because she knows, You'll Do Anything To Make Things Right
Again.
Unless
it's a diamond ring or something that's one-of-a-kind,
you're better off not contacting her to
get it back.
DVDs, clothes, your extra toothbrush... just let 'em
go. They're only possessions. Is it really worth the pain of being
in her presence just to reclaim a pair of boxer shorts?
Don't exchange your dignity for menial belongings.
Let your buddies give you a
reality check on how your ex wasn't all that to begin with, and that there
are more fish in the sea.
A little male camaraderie can
go a long way towards getting your head
straight.
We've all been discharge... by a woman
before... And most
of us will likely get
detonated again.
If you feel nostalgic, then think of all
the times she was a bitch to you, That should do
it...
Remember the time she made you
wait by the dressing room as she endlessly tried
on clothing... Or the time she reminded you not too drink too much in front of
your posse?
Nobody wants that back.
Nothing reminds you that you are
a man quite like having a new woman in your bed. So take solace in the arms of
another.
Call it a rebound if you
wish.
Plenty
of heart broken guys go this route and for a very good reason, it makes you feel better, even if it's only
temporary.
So go out there and feel better about
yourself!
How to get over your ex girlfriend
is something that many of you need to know but are having Trouble Moving
On.
Yes...
I often give advice on how to get your ex
girlfriend back, but some people just need to know when to move
on!
If your obsession with
your ex girlfriend feels unhealthy, then chances are high that it
probably is.
Listen to your body's
signals.
I'm going to let you
in on a few things you can do to get over your
ex girlfriend.
Some of them will be easy, and some of them will be a little more
difficult...
Get Over Your Ex Girlfriend Through An
Understanding of the Situation!
Remember, you
were once and still are a desirable man that woman are interested in, You already proved this.
Realize, That Your Ex
Girlfriend Is Not The Only Fish In The Sea... Yes, I know, it's A trite or overused expression... but it's the truth, or idea.
Do you think that your
ex girlfriend is the best looking girl you've ever seen?
Do you think that she's the smartest woman that
could possibly exist, or the most
fun to be with?
Can you envision another
woman, real or fantasy, that might be a better match for you and can
make you happier than your ex girlfriend ever
could?
I know that you probably
love your ex girlfriend and care about her
very deeply, so the above facts may not matter to you.
You may
not care if there are more beautiful, fun, intelligent women
out there who would treat you better, because you genuinely care about your
girlfriend.
But, You MUST... Become
A Man With Options! It's For Your Own Sake.
Even if your goal is to be with one woman who you
love,
The quickest way to accomplish this is
through becoming the type of
man who realizes that he has options.
When you fully accept the
fact that you are a worthy man and that there are many quality
women out there, you start to exude a certain
confidence that is alluring to
all women, even those that you love.
In essence, thinking about your
situation in this way makes you more attractive to women, even the
woman you care for.
Well, now's your chance to make a move that
will pay off in more ways than
just sex.
Just think, if your ex finds out...
You've been fishing in familiar waters, it
will drive her to the point of hysteria.
This can be quite gratifying.
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How To Get over your ex girlfriend.
What to do When you're having trouble moving
on, & just can't get her out of your
mind.
The biggest regret guys often have is
that
during the break up they acted
in way that was clearly out of
desperation.
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